This post is for everyone, even non-Black folks b/c we’re all susceptible to being conditioned to perceive natural Black hair, esp type 4, as least favorable. The word radical reflects the deep levels of pervasive anti-Blackness that we’re culturally immersed in by default. I still believe we underestimate how profoundly invested whiteness has been, and still is, in socializing us to prefer non-Black features, folkways, and folks.
#1. Seek Loving Images of Natural Black Hair.
Follow social media accounts like @naturallyhigh__, invest in media like @crwnmag, make a collage or Pinterest board.
#2. Notice your thoughts and feelings.
Start to make mental notes about your initial response to Black people’s hair in various states and styles.
#3. Journal about your thoughts and feelings.
Trace the roots of these attitudes. What messages were you exposed to in the past? What alternative narratives could you adopt now?
#4. Delete negative messaging.
Cut out the stereotypes, jokes, caricatures, memes, negging, judgmental criticism, etc.
#5. Affirm Natural Black Hair.
Be generous with compliments or praise to and about the natural hair textures and styles of Black people. Bonus points if you do this without exoticizing it.
#6. Advocate for Natural Black Hair.
Work to change discriminatory policies and practices. Speak up when you witness hair shaming.